“Why men marry bitches?” Why not?

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Hey you, yes you! Are you a bitch like me? Bitchesa ka ba?

Bitches. A bitch is a strong woman who has strong identity and is secure with who she is. She is clear about what she will or will not accept and will back away at the slightest whiff of disrespect. This is what makes her exciting for a man, not less. In this book, the kind of bitch is not your ordinary type of “bitch”.

Why Men Marry Bitches

In one of Heart Evangelista’s Youtube vlog, she recommended this book by Sherry Agrov saying that it is a must read for all the ladies out there, bitch or not. Being the bitch that I am, I gave it a good read.

By the way, I got the e-book from Lazada and it comes with a lot of freebies.

What is it about?

This book is a guide for ladies out there to learn to alter their approach. To not make your man feel trapped in your relationship. Purpose is to understand how men really think. Well, I would say not all, but most of them. For sure this is not just for single ladies, but also for married women who wants to spice up their relationship.

Everyone’s heard the story about the prince who marries the town maiden. Or the handsome eligible bachelor who could have any girl he wants, but falls in love with an ordinary woman who is difficult to deal with. At the wedding, the guys feels like the luckiest guy in the world. Meanwhile, his family is popping antacids wondering, “Why her?” Then the speculation starts: “Is it the cooking? Is it sex? Did she brainwash him? What did she do to him?” What they are dying to do is pull the guy aside and ask him point-blank, “Why are you marrying such a bitch?”

Why men marry bitches by Sherry Agrov

So what makes bitches the marrying type?

“A man doesn’t want to get involve in a relationship where a woman is so needy and he has to fill a position to make his girl feel whole.”

Who would want to be with someone who is a cry-baby? For some, it can be cute but for most men? I honestly don’t think so. A confident woman is the sexiest. A strong wit, a strong mind, that’s what makes a woman stand out. You being smart will make him swoon over you. Just don’t outsmart him often.

“When a man meets a competent woman who doesn’t need him, he instantly treats her differently than the woman who seems unsure of what she wants out of her life.”

“Competence is the thing which is most attractive.”

Will Smith

How to be that kind of “bitch”?

Be the best version of yourself. Compete with no one but yourself. “The more control you have over yourself, the more of a hold you will have of his heart.” Always bear in mind that you are worth something, and let that confidence show.

I would agree to that from time to time, we do need that kind of validation from our man. But not always.

She concluded the book with her version of fairy tale.

Before we end, I think it’s important to do one last thing. Let’s rewrite the fairy tale, shall we? Let’s forget everything we learned in Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, and Dorothy, Toto, and the Land of Oz—and let’s give the fairy tale a little makeover. The storybook ending should read like this:

Once upon a time there was a princess. Along came a prince who asked her if she’d like to ride on his white horse. She said, “I’d like to take a ride on your horse, but I can’t right now because I’m a little busy getting my own horse. Go ride off into the sunset without me, and I’ll catch up to you a little later.” Suddenly, the prince is dumbfounded. He’s never heard anything like this before. Something clicks inside him, and it starts a fire within him that he can’t put out, because she doesn’t need him.
And then he says, “I have to be with her for the rest of my life.”

Why Men Marry Bitches

Then they fall in love, marry, and ride off into the sunset. And then she tortures him…lovingly ever after.

So why men marry bitches? I say, why not? Interesting book, right? Follow our MyKmagazine for more!

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